• The guy complains that I very often call him, but how not to call if he can not do this for a couple of days?

    I'm 17 . He is 21. We meet 7 months. Works in another city, arrives only for the weekend. I call him he does not take the tube, so I call him "500 times" per day, well, I�m worried because I love very much. And recently she was sleeping that he communicates with a girl, she says that they like each other and he is going to come to her, she is from another city. Now he sends me because I'm constantly pissed, calling, and because I wrote this to a girl. asks not to call, not to write. What should I do? It seems that it�s not too late to change everything, but he will go to her all the same (they have never seen each other before) HELP THE GIRLS! PLEASE! He does not even apologize, does not explain anything. By itself, he is a strange man, he does not know how to care. He does not lead anywhere, and so on. but he says he loves.
    ��������������������������������There are 6 answers
    Butterfly
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    ������������Answered on January 29, 2015 16:01
    Anastasia, it happens that words mean little. It is necessary to judge by actions. If he says that he loves, but at the same time, not only does he not ring, but he does not even pick up the phone and send it, then it is not worth it, believe me. The bitter truth, but still: he does not love you, at least if he did, now he needs rest from you. Think yourself, well, unless the one who loves, will "hammer" on his girlfriend, while communicating with some other? She may be exaggerating something, saying that they like each other and are going to meet, perhaps she specifically teaches them to repel them, maybe she is telling the truth. I would advise to leave him alone. If needed, he will call, write, and come. If not, everything is clear here unfortunately, do not create illusions for yourself.
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    Anastasia
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    Thank you so much. The fact is that I perfectly understand that it should be left alone. But it does not work. Tantrum, etc. Very hard.
    ������������Answered on January 29, 2015 19:01, Butterfly | ������������ ��������
    Butterfly
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    It is necessary through the "I can not." Then you will meet someone who will truly love you, and forget this guy. Take care of yourself with something, with some chores, so that there is no free time.
    ������������Answered on January 29, 2015 10:13 PM, Butterfly | ������������ ��������
    Anastasia
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    I'm afraid that now the meeting of another, but this all the same will appear. and then what? Does he explain all his actions by one? so that I constantly say that I allegedly do not like that we are sitting at home and not going anywhere. that I am constantly psyched, etc. And the fact that he spoke with another girl, he does not even see his guilt in it
    ������������Answered on January 30, 2015 13:22, Butterfly | ������������ ��������
    Butterfly
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    Anastasia, may he not love you, why hold on to him? Well, seriously) 17 years old - this is so cool, to be honest, the whole life is ahead! Of course, you will meet another who will treat you much better, don�t even remember about it later) don�t cling to him, he�s not worth it, believe me)
    ������������Answered on February 2, 2015 08:48, Butterfly | ������������ ��������
    Johnny fall
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    ������������Answered on January 29, 2015 16:05
    Normally, the guy got a job - a guest performer, in each city for a girl of 17 years old! For him, I can only rejoice, of course, but for stupid girls who are willing to wait for weeks until the peasant has paid attention to them, and even share it with a bunch of other such fools, I express my condolences xD
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    best_or_nothing
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    ������������Answered on January 29, 2015 16:13
    I had an experience that is very similar to the story that you are describing now.It was very difficult for me, believe me, but I found the strength in myself and stopped calling, writing and taking any action in his direction. She was distracted in every possible way, hanging out with friends, they did not disappoint me). Thank you for having such wonderful ones! I am sure that you have a lot of people who sincerely love you, are waiting and taking care of your stomach and boots. Even if there are only a few of them, only one is already great! Well, having lived like this for some time (about a week or two), I realized that I feel good without this person, it is even better for me when he is not, calmer and in general no one rapes the brain. It's so cool! You will not believe! It needs to be felt. Try it! I recommend! In these cases, I recall the following expression: "It happens, you think - it's a pity that I lost a person, but after a while you understand, it's good that you got rid of it."
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    Anastasia
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    You see, on Sunday we were together, everything was fine, he left, I called all Monday, I didn�t pick up the phone. on Tuesday, I didn�t call, I stood, I suffered a day, so on Wednesday I find out that he is talking to another person, and again I start to get bogged down, I call him myself. although he is guilty, I beg him to talk to me.He accuses me of everything, allegedly finished playing, why did I even write this to a girl, etc.
    ������������Answered on January 29, 2015 19:08, best_or_nothing | ������������ ��������
    best_or_nothing
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    I believe that this is not love, but emotional dependence, which is very far from love. While you call him, you will be tormented and it depends only on you how long this masochism will last. The main thing is to leave on time when you are not needed. Catch the buzz! Try to live as if you do not know this person. Yes, then you from such a cool life for the ears will not delay)
    ������������Answered on February 2, 2015 11:06, best_or_nothing | ������������ ��������
    Mariana
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    ������������Answered on January 29, 2015 17:05
    Nastya, do not call him! take a pause whatever it takes. If a day passes, three weeks, and he never shows up, you will have to look for a new guy. If a person is in love, he will not behave this way (even if he is dead tired or busy or something else), and if he is not in love with you, why do you need one like that? a good future for such a relationship can not be! which means the sooner you tear them apart, the better.
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    Anastasia
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    Mariana, thank you. Can't imagine how I understand everything. true. but in just a few hours I will break down and call. and just gonna listen to the hooters ... Apparently there is no willpower. I really love him.

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